None of what she is doing is she doing to cut you at the knees personally, she's doing what she thinks is best for her.
If you trust your lawyer and their skills let your lawyer do their job and don't vex yourself with WAW's crazy pants parade of the day. You worry about you. Worry about getting what your lawyer needs from you. Worry about what you need to do next. Do you need to start looking for a new place? Isn't that on the to do list? Any chance you can maybe focus on that for a little bit?
I'm sorry you're going through this. Ditto the above. There was also the possible suggestion to pack up her things nicely ahead of time, to minimize the time she spends visiting to pickup her things.
