Well for the record I do respect myself fully, and my spouse respects me to. He believes he wants a divorce due to many reasons. And no i never said anyone attacked me, i simply stated that I am asking for advice to MY questions. And instead of answering some, I am getting alot of just leave him. I'm honestly quite shocked by it as after reading the book with such the clear understanding that you have to follow your gut and do what you believe is best to save your marriage, people are still so unwilling to give me the advice for which I am asking. Im simply stating that no one knows any other persons marriage but them, I am not being blinded by love or any of these things, my husband wants a divorce, he is seeing other people during this time, but I still believe my marriage is worth saving and I am going to fight for my marriage and I am wanting some advice on how to handle some boundaries. I can't and will not apologize for asking for advice for the questions I am asking or for wanting to find some support. I appreciate the advice nonetheless as I'm sure everyone on here only wants to help
