People here are not going to tell you what you want to hear, they are going to tell what's best for you. You might take it as being negative, but I want you to step back and ask yourself, is it negative or hard to hear. Mostly everyone providing comments on your thread has had their world devastated by a Spouse.
You have only one concern and that's getting your husband to stay with you. No matter the cost. That's not a healthy place to be for you are your child.
You have to respect yourself before your husband, who's asking to be your friend will respect you, y'all relationship or a Marriage.
There's a poster here, who didn't like what we was telling him. He barely took our advice and his WW didn't respect him. He didn't have respect for himself, he was here for a while and his situation only got worst over time.
There were two other posters, I can't think of their names at the moment. One of them, his wife was having an A with his brother-in-law, and he thought we were being mean, and his situation got worst over time.
And one other one, he was a police officer and his W was a teacher and she wanted to move to another state with his kids to be with her AP, he had a hard time taking the advice here as well.
The common theme in their threads were, not having respect for themselves and taking the advice on the board as an attack and not as help.
Take care of yourself
Onward and Forward
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
