What she's doing is pretty normal for the MLC spouses we've seen. And some WAS/WS depending on how off the rails they've gone. They design an exit that benefits them and no one else. A lot of them are even willing to let their kids get the fuzzy end of the lollipop if it means they get exactly everything they want on the other side. Once again smilie don't take any of this personally no matter how personal it feels. None of what she is doing is she doing to cut you at the knees personally, she's doing what she thinks is best for her. You are just an obstacle in her way. This version of reality will come crashing down on her in due time. And she will try to make this seem more and more personal as she loses more and more of what she wants. She's going to blame you. She's going to say and do much worse things. Trust me. But none of it's about you. It's about that elusive happiness she seeks. WAS/WS seem to truly believe that happiness is a person, place or point in time. She clearly needs money for her happiness and wants to help herself to as much of yours as possible because it's easier than getting it on her own. If you trust your lawyer and their skills let your lawyer do their job and don't vex yourself with WAW's crazy pants parade of the day. You worry about you. Worry about getting what your lawyer needs from you. Worry about what you need to do next. Do you need to start looking for a new place? Isn't that on the to do list? Any chance you can maybe focus on that for a little bit?
