So the worst has arrived! Man this has taken everything from me and it's only just starting.
My lawyer has now received contact from my wife's lawyer and she has painted me as the complete opposite of what I am as a person. She has lied, given false accounts of my money being spent on general things that were taken out of her salary, added things to her outgoings such as leasing a car to use daily when she already has a car, beauty treatments when she has not ever had any regular treatments and a heafty pension payment when she hasn't paid into any pension since 2007.
Lies, deceit and enough of it proveable to put everything else in question.
Basically, she has been shafting me for months since my 19.5k dental claim came through and has spent it all and now she's saying the we spent it on general stuff? I would never do that as it was for dental treatment. From what she is saying, she is setting out to shaft me even more and attempting to claim my pensions. She also doesn't want the person she's with to be named. Talk about wanting it all her way!
I will be taking the higher ground here and trying to mitigate my losses. But I really am devasted at all of this - I certainly don't recognise the person that she is - I see pure evil, feel sorry for her wanting to be that way and sorry for the person who she is now with.
I can't believe what I am reading.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
