smile, I love the idea of sitting together at a cafe, and being the designated person to toss mini-bagels as 2x4s at people on-demand. There are advantages of this format. I'll wager if you were in a public coffee shop and you were face-to-face with someone in your community you might be less open about your feelings? I'll wager when broken hearts come together it'd be easier to wind up in unhealthy romantic entanglements? That said I would LOVE to meet the whole gang someday. I have received so much support here. (: