This is a continuation thread for my previous one "WAW Walks Away a Second Time".

It's been 6 weeks today that my wife told me that she wasn't coming back and that she had feelings for another. 10 years ago she did the same thing, but promised that she wasn't OM in the picture, she promised during our 1st counseling session.

Now I see the same pattern as before and this time there is OM in the picture. I can clearly see now that 10 years prior an under a year of being married, she had indeed been having an affair - whether she admits it or not, her actions say otherwise.

The rest can be found in the following threads:

#1 - https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2920063
#2 - https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2920619&page=1

Thank you for everybody who has helped on this unforeseeable journey which I now face. It really is one of the biggest challenges of my entire life and one that I must now face at the ripe old age of 55. smile

M(55), W(45)
BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21)
Divorce Filed (16 July '21)
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When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.