One other thing Smilie, a few times you've assumed that her R with OM will end. Don't pin your hopes on that and work towards being ok no matter what happens. My STBXW is over a year now with OM, ask Ginger how her H's OW turned out. My sister's H cheated on his long-term GF to be with her and they've been together almost 20 years.
Yeah I know... Actually, she was with me for just over 19 years after cheating on her other boyfriend so the liklihood is slim. I know it's time for me to move on. I just feel like breaking down every time I think of it and I feel so stuck with finding a place to live it's unbelievable.
Cheers pal
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
