I have decided for myself not to continue with the sale of the house for the time being, although this is if the boundaries I have set for myself towards him are not exceeded and these are no OW or disrespectful behavior towards the children or towards me.
Today I don't have to do it for financial reasons. Our bills have already been split, financially I am strong there, I have my own car, only the house and the household effects are shared. There he pays half of everything monthly (we still have 1 joint account where these costs are paid from) There are extra deposits from both parties when necessary. Every month I also have an amount for the children, he has paid this in advance for a whole year.
This means that I am financially better today and that I can save more. (otherwise I would have to pay the costs alone if I had my own home)
I pushed this for months because I felt like I had to get a divorce and be financially independent, as this would change my feelings towards him but now realize this isn't true at all. That won't make the difference, I'll make the difference myself.
You know that he signed the wrong version of the sales agreement just before he came over and then this week while he was here he was going to sign the correct version. However, he is leaving this evening. We never talked about this at any point. He didn't bring it up himself either.
Should I still do this or simply not talk about it?
