Exit affairs - yeah, that's how we met and that's what she did before. Red flag - didn't see it as I wasn't aware of such things as red flags before. I didn't really give it much thought to tell the truth, didn't think she'd do it "to me" I suppose.
I still don't know what to say to her when I answer the door to her when she comes for her things next weekend though and that's a major cause of stress for me at the moment for some silly reason.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.