I dont want to take over the thread with my issues. H is obv not keen for this to happen, but said he would always support the boys. Legally its complicated, kids have dual nationality. Essentially we could leave the country, and then everything else will have to go through court, which takes years. This is NOT what i want to happen for my children, not how i want to live either, looking over my shoulder constantly. So if this were to happen it would be with agreement from both parties around what this might look like.