WS/WAS aren't exactly known for for their reliability or follow through. She's not playing mind games. She's just genuinely not considering how it would affect you. Nor does she care. You are out of sight out of mind. And that hurts like h3ll. But that's what it is.
Originally Posted by smiles
I can't get my head around that. How can you live with somebody and have them part of your life for 19+ years and then not think about them at all, or care about what you are doing? That is cold and callous to me. I don't suppose I will ever know.
Hopefully not. Some of us have worn the WAS hat. If I’d left my XW after 10yrs a year earlier, I might’ve still cared, but instead I used that last bit of care to give her another year to change. By the time I left I’d given her all I could and it was time to focus on me and my kids. I was totally done 2 weeks before BD.
