If you weren't prepared to honor "no" as her answer, you should not ask her a "yes" or "no" question.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
But now more than one activity is too much????
You parent S how you like during your time. She parents S how she likes during her time.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I know why, because he would be with me more.
Makes sense. If you two were on better terms, you might negotiate that a 3rd party coach your son.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I coach flag and want to coach tackle
My dad learned he can coach without me playing.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
My problem with that, on her days she may not take him.
You parent S how you like during your time. She parents S how she likes during her time. Try not to see a lack of control over her as a "problem". On your days you may do tackle football, on her days she may have him bake cookies or read books.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
She did that when he wanted to play baseball, she wouldn’t take him, and then he stopped playing.
If he enjoys playing baseball, why would a weekend off stop him? My son hikes at both houses, cycles at my XW's house, and kayaks at my house. There are "mama" and "dada" activities. There are no conflicts or problems. As coach, you have the benefit of knowing what skills you taught during any days he's not present and may be able to teach him separately.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
Do I sign him up and take a chance or unfortunately do I let him miss out if she says no? Thanks everyone.
If you want him to learn and play tackle football on your days, sign him up and have fun! Try not to worry about what she's going to do during her parenting time. That's literally what "her parenting time" means. She chooses what's best for him.
