It is a great idea to vent here. Crafting emails you don’t intend to send is a step along the path to processing all this and finding acceptance. You will receive a compassionate ear and shoulder and encouragement and reminders to not send such potentially damaging venting to her. Why? Why we tell you such stuff?
For you!
Everything here is to save you. That is the primary and first and foremost goal. If your marriage or relationship is reconciled, it is a bonus.
Vent and let go.
Choose better not bitter.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
