Hey Smilie, it gets better, I promise. But don’t just rely on time to do the work, you need to do the work. Think of it like a wound, if you treat the wound like crap, in time it will still heal but with a big ugly scar. If you care for it properly, the scar will be barely noticeable.

Read the advice, do the work, focus on you not her. Trust me, she does not give 1 sh!t about your changes or your progress right now.

Read the post titled “you will not die”. Trust that you are not unique here and that many have been where you are and are in fact now ok, if not thriving.


Me: 41 W:42
T: 14 M: 11
S: 6

"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"