I have been sort of following your story, but perhaps missed some details. Still too much emphasis on xw, who cares which om and how and where.
Can i just urge you to speak with caution about your gf to your kids. Theory and reality are two different things. This is a personal example of course, h and i havent been together for 15 months, ow was introduced to kids from day 1 as a friend and then slowly progressed from there, kids actually like her. Well as much as you can like someone who as they perceive has nothing to do with their family. So my s7 has this story in his head how ow moves back with her parents and is no longer with H….he does not want to be cuddled or kissed by her, as far as he is concerned she is a stranger and he would much prefer if H lived alone because he doesnt feel comfortable in H home with essentially a stranger there. All kids are different, but there seriously is no rush in somehow bringing your personal life into your childrens life.
