First of all very sorry you are here. If it is indeed MLC be prepared as they have unfortunately a very long way to go.
Please carefully listen to all the advice you will get here. These people know about what they talk.
You will not be able to apply all their advice at once, and this is perfectly normal, since this is a journey for you as well. You will when you are ready for it.
In regards to the affair, it is crazy how they can lie in your face, it’s like they believe it themselves. My H, who was a terrible liar before MLC, could look straight in my eyes, telling me I was seeing ghosts, I was completely crazy for thinking he had an affair.
