Im not sure why your wife wanted to move away, but it interesting to read this. I dont want to go into a load of details about my sitch, but im very much considering moving country and the kids would come with me. I want to add straight away, this decision isnt taken lightly and it has nothing to do with H. This decision is around my life going forward and a place where the whole of my family is. At the moment i have literally no support of any kind, and because of covid i havent seen my family since last august! And this just isnt the life i want to lead. I absolutely have the moral dilemma about taking the kids away. So i either stay and give up on my life close to my loved ones allowing the kids to see their dad twice per week. Or i move, have a great support network and a social circle, but that would mean facetime for the kids and seeing H a couple of times per year. I obviously want my kids to be happy, but i want to be happy too! I guess just a different perspective on the whole moving away thing.
