Smile, whether you are correct or incorrect in your assumptions, you are putting an unusual amount of effort into analyzing your ex's motives for logging on or off an app.
Yeah, I know. This is the bloomin' emotional side of me and the one that keeps wondering - it's a nightmare!
Originally Posted by CWarrior
This is harmful if your goal is to detach and focus on yourself to win her back or to move on. If you can't stop, I would "unfriend" her on that app. I assume there are other channels she could use to reach out to you if she has a chance of heart.
I'm not friended or anything. I hardly use the thing only to keep updated on a local group I joined. Perhaps I'm reading too much into it and should forget about it and go on with my life. It sure is hard, but it's gotta be done I suppose. I know that I need to stop hoping. It's all part of that saying goodbye process - the hardest thing to do but something that must be done.
Cheers
Last edited by smilie; 06/29/2104:28 PM.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
