So here I am...never wanted divorce or my family to break apart apart Ex-W choose that path and I've learned it's beyond my control. I'm doing much much better overall.
Awesome stuff BL, learning what is and isn't within your control is such a difficult thing and was one of my biggest 180s.
Originally Posted by BL42
The only real update since my last post is Ex-W dropped off S6 & D2 to me - despite it being her time with the them - to go on vacation to the Caribbean (assuming w/OM2). She's done that a few times now. I feel bad for the kids they're not W's priority, but also happy for the time with them.
How did you feel about this? Are you in the place where the vacay doesn't bother you because you're just cheering to have more time with the kids?
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
