If she had had an affair 10 years back and wasn't prepared to own up to it, then she was prepared to build the last 10 years on a lie
Smile, if I understand correctly, she said she didn't cheat 10yrs ago, and you believe she did cheat. We don't know the truth of that situation. We do know YOU were willing to build the last 10yrs on a lie.
Originally Posted by smile
Is this the person that I want to be with for the rest of my life, I ask myself?
Wherever you go, there you are. Why were you willing to do that? You might have had a good reason. You say it led to 10 good years for you before she gave up again and had an exit affair.