What you need to know us - this isn’t about YOU. This is about her, her alcoholism, her depression - and her CHARACTER defects. This is a good opportunity to work in yourself, own what you can own, improve yourself - but so you can be better in your next relationship. Maybe learn why you married an alcoholic and didn’t notice? Why you got married just because it was expected? What red flags were you ignoring that you should have seen earlier in the relationship?