Ok I'm here and I'm hoping the handful of us that are out there will follow. Granted I know Steve is here already. I'm probably going to post in rapid succession just so I can establish a decent thread here that's easy enough to follow should some one show up a while down the road. Basics, the recon list with my answers, and where I'm at right now.
First up the basics:
Here's my original thread: https://www.divorcebusting.com/foru...ain=62699&Number=2878654#Post2878654 Timeline: H38 Me 37 T 8 M 4 D17 H's from previous relationship D18 from my previous relationship EA started in mid Oct 2019 became a PA in late Dec 2019 Late Nov 2019 ILYBNILWY IHS H planned to leave MR for life with OW In Apr 2020 OW dumped H Mid Feb 2020 Covid lock-down Mar 13, 2020 - H couldn't leave no matter how much he wanted to April-Jun 2020 H slowly let go of leaving the MR ASAP and started trying with me without ever saying as much July 2020 H returned to MBR, and finally said ILY Piecing since
This is the requisite piecing disclaimer since sandi doesn't seem to be around to make sure it gets posted:
Originally Posted by sandi2
"If anyone is coming here from Newcomers or MLC or any of the other forums... and you think that the advice here is different...it is.
It is different. DO NOT take advice from Piecing and apply it to a newcomer situation. Do not apply it to god forbid an MLC situation.
Piecing is when both parties are (or say they are) committed to working on the relationship and even then? Give it a few weeks or months to see if that is true.
