She's Gone Again - 10 Years On

[LH19]

Wayfarer I look forward to your posts everyday. Thank you for being nice to Smiles.

LH I think more the point is vows were made therefore commitment was promised and reliable trustworthy people keep their promises.

I would argue that most WS are not trustworthy.

Evolution means eff all if we use our higher selves. We have these big beautiful brains for a reason.

Yes but most decisions in these sitches are made on emotion. Not logic and reason from our big beautiful brains.

If this weren't so we might as well all being living in caves again.

My point is our brains don't know we are not living in caves.

similie's W also wasn't some naïve girl who was barely more than a child when she walked down the aisle.

My comment was about marriages in general but in this situation when she made those vows she had no idea what it would be like living with a man who was ill and hadn't worked for seven years. Again, not his fault but you see my point.

I have about a million thoughts on why this marriage didn't/isn't working.

As do I.

The archaic nature of matrimony isn't one of them.

I see we agree that it is archaic.