Originally Posted by DejaVu6
I keep saying to myself that I am okay and that life will unfold how it is supposed to but with every birthday, I feel more and more worried that I am going to spend this last part of my life partnerless.

This is normal and what all single think at some point. I bet even Jennifer Anniston felt that way at some point.

Originally Posted by DejaVu6
So, at the heart of it, I’m just scared I think. Why is that?

Evolution. For millions of years if you were alone you were as good as dead. Our brains have not caught up with modern day life.

Originally Posted by DejaVu6
Sometimes I feel like being an identical twin has handicapped me in some way. I’ve always just been part of a set…half of a whole. And even though I’ve gotten much more comfortable being on my own, I still feel like I am missing something most of the time. Is that crazy?

No! We are put on this earth to seek love and connection. The key is to not give into this urge when the person is not a good fit for you.

DejaVu most quality women I date or have talked to have been single for 4-9 year stretches. Your time will come. I am sure of it!