Just a quick note to check in and see how you are doing! Any progress on the pension? If you haven't tried to speak directly to the HR office of your H's company, you should. Were you married when he first started working there? If he put you down as his spouse, you should be listed as a beneficiary. I am by no means an expert, but at my last job we had a pension plan that we were working on closing down, and the HR folks had a spreadsheet that included the present-day value of each pension. If you don't want to call, you could also probably write a letter and request the information.
Another thing you could do is look through paperwork you have at the house-- I *think* all pensions are required to send an annual notice to vested participants that says what your expected monthly benefit would be if you retire at age (whatever). I bet if you found the most recent copy of that letter, you could probably back out what the present value is. (sorry if I'm missing some of the story!)
Any baking lately?
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Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing