Who knows why she's not a good communicator, although I have my suspicions..
This was brought up in our marriage counselling sessions 9 years back - that she couldn't/wouldn't communicate.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.