So I have read through Sandi's 37 Rules and I cannot see that I haven't adhered to them, at all.
Rule 35. Do not send several TM's or emails throughout the day unless absolutely necessary.
- I didn't. I replied to an email where she asked a question, after a week. What did I do wrong here?
I've read again through you example conversation flow and I can't see that I've pursued or contacted unnecessarily.
Smilie, thanks for the additional details. I agree with you, you did nothing wrong. My post was more a reminder than trying to say that you did anything wrong. I'd also ask you not to see us giving guidance as reprimanding or coming down on you. There is no true right or wrong here. There are just things that you can do to further hurt your chances of the outcome you want in your sitch. It sounds like you've been doing well with not constantly contacting her, but having been through it before I know the temptation to do so can creep up on you.
Just keep up the good work You'll get through this!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018