Forgiveness is not for the other person....it is for you! Bitterness, anger, resentment are a prison for YOU, not the person that has wronged you. Heck, in most cases the WAS doesn't even feel like they did anything wrong.
So forgive them FOR YOU, not for them.
You have a choice to not to forgive a person for their mistakes and at the same time choose not to be bitter, angry or resentful You can just choose to detach and cut them out of your life or at least some aspects of your life where they no longer influence your thoughts or feelings.
You can just choose to detach and cut them out of your life or at least some aspects of your life where they no longer influence your thoughts or feelings.
