you just need to decide if you want to find your feet and move on, or stay on the crazy ride.
Think I'd prefer to find my feet at this stage as I'm not sure I could handle any more of this emotion and I need to get sorted.
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If and when you do speak to your WW, she will probably put it back on you...
I remember this from before. She brought something up from years back just as we got together, trying to say that I had been chasing another woman just because I had sent her an email. I was an IT support guy for peaks sake, I sent loads of people emails! But that was litterally about 8 years prior to her going the first time! We got married since. AND then she brought it up again just before she walked out the door 4 weeks back. So that's 18 years ago! Mad.
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Just remember - Cheaters rewrite history to espace accountability for their actions !
And probably tell everybody else what a bad and abusive guy you were, no doubt.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.