Put the effort in - real effort - Not to win your WW back, but for you - to live the best life you can.
Ok, get you. Yes, I need to start thinking like a single {solo?} person again and start to create the life I want without her in it. I suppose that's the angle I need to take seeing as she's gone now anyway.
Originally Posted by smilie
Get over it - yes. I love my life and i have an amazing relationship with our children.. Better than WW has with them IMO.
Hold against her - I'm grey rock. Interaction is to a bare minimum and i want nothing to do with her.. No so much because of the cheating, but because of the manipulation of our children.
I fought to save our relationship, and it wasnt bad. But i'm a lot happier now.
I took it that you had got back together. After reading this it sounds like you're not anymore?
Originally Posted by OnlyBent
One i read last week was "get inside her - the female perspective" - by Marni Kinrys.
Now there's a title! I'll see if I can give it a look.
Cheers for your time, very much appreciated!
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
