Pack, great to hear from you and great update! Well done all around here. As far as your struggle with the house and such, just try to remain as unbiased as you can. I do not think you are being immature. We all struggle with how to act and to treat our WAS/WS when they start acting entitled or dare to ask for our help. In my own sitch, after BD, I can remember my W asking me for help to review her resume and if she could buy books to help her with interviewing. My initial thought was "I am not going to HELP you leave me". But then I tried to look at the situation outside of myself. As a legally married couple our money was just that, OUR money. And she was leaving regardless. So I tried to keep the mindset about how to react as a truly detached person without thoughts of vengeance, It also helped show her that I wa accepting her decision to leave me and that I was moving on myself.

It is tough though. I know how you feel and struggle between good Pack and bad Pack. I forget if you are in IC, but I really encourage you to get/stay in IC and work through these struggles.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018