Steve_, you make it sound like you have no choice in the new R. The new R didn't just happen, you consciously went into it with both eyes open.
Yes, but that is something in the past and is not something that can be easily reversed at this time.
Originally Posted by Steve_
That is correct Steve.
I Just wanna keep my eyes open this time.
Everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes what appears as a mistake to others may actually be the right thing for you. I know an LBS who got into another relationship within weeks of separation and when divorce proceedings were still in progress and is now engaged to the new partner and happy. He got lucky and the chips just seemed to line up.
But it is good that you have the right attitude and keep your eyes open since you will not always be lucky
