sjohn6 - If she has done nothing towards divorce after all this time, is it because it benefits her financially to do nothing? Does it mean she gets to stay on your insurance, or is building up a larger interest in your pension, or in some other way financially gaining by delaying? Because while it is common for WASs to be slow to deal with the paperwork of divorce, this is pretty unusual to go this long without dealing with it, and when that happens, its often because there's a financial benefit to staying in limbo.
Sjohn, my friend, I think of you so often and wonder how you are.
Maybe you will see this post sometime, me telling you, Happy Father's Day. I know all that you have done in your life for your children, and that flood of love made light in this world.
Sara in Her Father’s Arms by George Oppen
Cell by cell the baby made herself, the cells Made cells. That is to say The baby is made largely of milk. Lying in her father’s arms, the little seed eyes Moving, trying to see, smiling for us To see, she will make a household To her need of these rooms—Sara, little seed, Little violent, diligent seed. Come let us look at the world Glittering: this seed will speak, Max, words! There will be no other words in the world But those our children speak. What will she make of a world Do you suppose, Max, of which she is made.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
Time for a new thread and please link this one to it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
