[MrBrside]

The problem with 2 years is that if your families don’t mesh, your kids can’t stand eachother, 2 years in is a long time to find that out. It honestly doesn’t work that way at all. And if there is a couple who are looking to expand on their family and have more kids, 2 years to introduce kids, a year to see how they get along. Another year or 2 for kids….. it’s a little much.

But to each their own. I am am not an advocate of too early, especially fresh out of a marriage. But too long can be detrimental as well.

being honest..

I would rather my kids experience 1 relationship breakdown every 2.5 years if things dont mesh, than every 6 months..

Just my opinion, but thats 3 less upheavels in their lives..

Wanting more kids does impact on that, but if you stick a logical hat on ( sorry i know i love that word ) i would rather wait 5 years ( 2 year intro, 3 years blending ) rather than another relationship breakdown.