Thanks for answering, and fair enough. If she isn’t the type of person you want around your kids, she absolutely shouldn’t be introduced.
I have a daughter, been single mom for just about the entirety of her nearly 14 year old life. So I get it. But I’ve been encountering men who when there kids are present, the rest of the world does not exist. I had a boyfriend like that for a year and even when my daughter and I were in the room, we barely existed. I understand where men usually get less custody and when people don’t see their kids everyday, but do we do our kids favors when they get 100% attention all the time? My ex boyfriends kid was knocking kids off their seats and stabbing his classmates with pencils in preschool because he was so used to undivided attention, he didn’t like when he didn’t get it at school. I guess what I am saying is that there is a balance in there somewhere , and I understand it can be difficult to find and we are all trying our best
