A new update... I have now heard that ex has managed to cancel the next court date by claiming to be too unwell mentally to provide bank statements. I expect her to claim the same months later at the next court date.
I am sure it isn't because WW wants to get back with me but rather to avoid providing bank statements showing she has hidden a lot of money (been financially abusive).
In 3 years it has gone from me being worried about D papers arriving and blaming myself for everything to the truth coming out and ex avoiding it.
