CW said EXACTLY what I was going to say. You are not in a place to negotiate. Stick STRICTLY to divorce agreement terms and document any fluctuations from that agreement. You say what you think would be fair for you to ask for (just keeping your son since she'd only actually have about 20 minutes with him), but that is YOUR perspective. She's clearly not going to see that as being fair to her at all. I'm not saying it is or isn't, my point is, divorce agreements are signed by both parties and legally binding so, at least for now, you need to be toeing that line and follow the agreement to the letter. Let her be the one to slip up or overstep and eventually she'll get caught. I think it is Andrew who talks about keeping his own side of the street "clean". Do that!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
