I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD pt 30

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I didn't want a D under those circumstances.

Again no credibility KK. You were going to D your STBXH when you thought it would win you points with the pilot.

I can also say that my STBXH is also operating more under emotional neutral.

Well of course. He has new family, friends, no commute and his STBXW as a friend.

I think you are less likely to have regret if decisions come from this place.

I agree and I do not think he regrets the decision one bit. You two were pretty toxic together.

I also feel that with more time and space he might be able to see what he is leaving behind.

I agree. Though I am still not clear is to what was so great about it.

Maybe he doesn't, but at least I can feel confident that he isn't D out of anger or revenge. That's what is most important to me.

I don't think he ever was doing that. He found another woman he feel is better suited for him.

If I'm lucky enough to buy another 6mo I will take it... I don't see that happening... but I'm okay staying in limbo for right now. I'm staying busy.

Uuuuum you are not in limbo you are in the process of divorcing.