I wish I could keep everyone's details straight in my head, but I can't. I know LH19 and Steve do a fair job at this.
I believe divorcebusting.com has lost some SEO (Search Engine Optimization) and may not be getting the exposure it used to. I just did a quick search on a few terms that should be hit, but did not see any links to this site. Might explain the lack of newbies.
8 user and 62 Anonymous online right now. (lots of lurkers).
This quote stands out: "This is not a peer-counseling site, it's a brainstorming solutions site."
During brainstorming sessions IRL, one of the main ideas to write down every idea. No ideas are bad. 20 ideas is better than 19.
I do censor some of my personal beliefs when I post because I understand MWD view on exposing affairs ect. and attempt to keep things in line with hers.
I do not believe married people should date people outside the marriage. Even if one spouse is actively cheating. But if some one asks for dating advise, I will give them advise as if they are a single person.
The more each of us can give from our personal experiences and knowledge, the better.
It is up to the reader (Who may not be the thread owner) to process all that they are reading and make a decision on how to apply new behaviors to their life. They then live with the consequences of those choices. Good or Bad. Rinse and repeat for the next choice.
We told DanF that driving past his "old house" was a bad idea. Did he listen and change his behavior? He did what he felt like vs what he knew he should do. Either learn from others or learn lessons for yourself.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
