KK,

You see that is why I stay away from the "cookie cutter" advice and look at each situation differently.

Case and point "new Steve's'" W had I think 7 affairs. I can't in good conscious give him advice to take his w back.

Your husband not only cheated on you he physically and emotionally abused you. That changes my advice on things.

I am all about second chances if the WW does the steps to earn another chance.

I really don't think you are being fair and this is more KK manipulation that fits into your narrative.