WW has been found guilty of regularly breaking court orders for the kids to see me and as a result it looks like it could be changed become 50/50.
In the US, 50/50 custody is the default. Sorry if it's different in the UK. What were the penalties for being "found guilty"--fines, mandated courses, probation, jail-time? Hopefully, the penalties are enough to matter.
Originally Posted by David
In the financial court, WW was found to be telling lots of lies and has been ordered to supply more financial details. She has continued to refuse to do so (as she has hidden lots of money) so is breaching court orders and now refusing to cooperate with the court and legal teams.
You first reported her financial misdeeds in 2018. Slow-going, but glad you're close to an outcome.
Originally Posted by David
I am now often happier than when I was when with WW. Ex has gone from looking incredibly happy and rushing to divorce when we separated to incredibly sad and refusing.
I'm glad you're often happier. You sound like you're still working on detachment. At some point, you won't spend time speculating as to her feelings and may be totally okay that's she may also often be happier living separately. You may even prefer it for your kids. But that's probably sometime after your lawyers or barristers finish settling your contentious divorce case and the custody violations.
What were the penalties for being "found guilty"--fines, mandated courses, probation, jail-time? Hopefully, the penalties are enough to matter.