3 years later

[BL42]

DavidUK,

I'm not familiar with your sitch, but...

I thought I woukd come back to give an update. Separation was 3 years ago. WW has been saying and doing anything to get what she wants.

3 years. Wow. That's a long time. That must be frustrating.

WW has been found guilty of regularly breaking court orders for the kids to see me and as a result it looks like it could be changed become 50/50.

Must be a relief to get more time with your kids - potentially losing half my kids' lives was the scariest part for me in my sitch.

Ex has gone from looking incredibly happy and rushing to divorce when we separated to incredibly sad and refusing. Whereas for me it has been quite the opposite. I am now often happier than when I was when with WW.

So still not divorced.

Sounds like your and your W's perspectives have flipped - are you pushing the D at this point?