Unchien wow you’re still married too?? My stbxh sent one settlement offer a year ago which left me living in my car but at least he let me have the car. Lol I can’t say much because I know the way this game is played where you start off at the bottom and negotiate to some mutually painful middle. I’m poor, I’m old, a former homemaker so I have absolutely no choice but to fight for every dime. I did not do this. My stbxh got a girlfriend, talked me into selling our house, helped me get a job then left. This is about the rest of my life and I still have a good 5 years left to parent (he can’t be bothered). I’ve saved enough cash to go to trial and I consider it an investment in my future. I might lose but what I want is reasonable so I think (hope) I’ll get enough support to at least keep a decent roof over my head and while I won’t retire at 65 I need to prepare in case I got sick or something.
