CL, What if you were to say to your family that she is still your wife and you want her there..?
I personally think it is important to present a united front, if you want this marriage to work. Do they know that you are planning to reunite?
If YOU have re-committed to her, then that should be enough for them, don'tcha think?
I don't know...this is purely my opinion but I think that your W could interpret this in a very bad way and YOU will come out looking like the bad guy. I know you don't want that..
Just some thoughts and can you think of any "meet in the middle" type plans that would appeal to both sides?
