In one of the purges, we lost the MLC archives, which had a lot of sage advice that was posted way back when this Board was formed. Unfortunately, over time, those sage postings were lost. Like many on-line forums, eventually a cleaning needs to be done and that is why Cadet and I are warning posters what is to come. Many of the older postings may go (again). During the last purge, I opted to have many of my old postings deleted and only kept a few here for those who wish to read them. I haven't decided yet whether to keep those threads that I have on here to stay or not.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.