Listener, I just found your thread and need to read your other links but I figured I'd just ask here. What did you do during your sep? How did you act and maitain contact with your w? I too am sep with h being gone just over 5 months but I have to see him all the time due to the fact that we have d(11). But still, now that he has his freedom in his bachelor pad, I have no idea how to lure him home. He loves his space and alone time and right now would not give that up to come back to me due to the fact that he thinks he no longer loves me. How can he find out if he loves me if he spends more time alone than with me? We haven't been intimate since Easter Sunday and that day was wonderful and affectionate but the next day he told me not to tell anyone he had spent the night. He said it "could be taken a lot of different ways" whatever that means. I think he didn't want me to tell his mom and get her hopes up and he didn't want anyone to think he had used me. There is no ow.
