For comparison, I'd gone on a road trip with a new friend for a planned hike. Upon arriving, she wanted to nap in the campground instead. I opted to hike solo. She said I was 1. An extremely selfish person for going on the hike and not considering her feelings, 2. I'd promised breakfast and a greek yogurt parfait is not breakfast; it's not even warm! 3. My car was disgusting, and she secretly wiped anything she touched.
My takeaways? 1. Go me, for valuing myself enough to go for my hike! 2. Next time, when I offer food, be clearer about the nature of said food. 3. A wash and vacuum weren't enough. My car needed a detail! Detailing of my car complete.
There are often lessons to learn from angry feedback, even if you don't agree with their overall assessment.
