We get it. Everything about everyone's sitch here bothers us. We can all wish that things were different.
With that said, the way we respond to different events in our lives is what is important. Challenge your current beliefs. Maybe your son will become a police officer based of this experience. Who knows. Embrace the exchange at the police station. Let the lights shine on crazy X wife.
Have you done any research into "Amor fati"? If not, I suggest starting at wiki and then some time on youtube. There are other similar concepts that are similar.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
