Steve,

The point Mr. B was trying to make is you are a person who makes decisions based on emotion and not logic and reason. These are characteristics of WAS and usually bad decisions. Logically you know you should WAW from your ex wife. Emotionally you are not there. We can see it clearly through your actions. You have never been able to clearly embrace DB and trust the process. You really need time to just breather and get up everyday, workout, work and take care of your kids for a really long time. You are 17 years younger then me and have plenty of time for new relationships. I know we have been tough on you at times but that is because we clearly see your intentions were not quite lining up with what you are saying.

Anyways good luck and stay in therapy as long as needed and realize your WW is going to continue to make your life miserable for a really long time.